ASHER DEAN, WE LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH, ESPECIALLY YOUR BRO AZRAEL.
June 15, 2013 to October 31, 2018.
To really know Asher is to share in our grieving and his sudden unexpected passing with our memories keeping us going.
WE ARE HERE FOR YOU.
SHARE YOUR STORY OR GRIEF WITH US.
Have you lost someone close to you? Do you want to share your grief? Losing a loved one, especially a child, is the worst experience that one can have. Guam's terrible medical care that Asher experienced and his last 3 days alive is described at
Brace yourself and take a look.
Celebration of Asher's Life
ASHER DEAN
Guam Seventh Day Adventist Clinic and Dr. Shishin Miyagi apparently failed my son October 29. 2018 when my son went there for an annual full physical that took only less than 20 mins. On top of that, symptoms of off and on fever, throwing up and hoarseness that my boy was having were reported to Dr. MIYAGI and not addressed in my opinion. The physical didn't include the usual complete examination.. Watching his watch, not Asher is what I observed.
Asher Dean died 2 days later.
Love has no end our beautiful boy Mr. SMILEY. Funeral Part 3
This is part 3, please also see part 1 and 2 of the day we put our boy to rest. God Bless him and thank you for sharing our deep pain.
My boy, we are heart broken and love you. Funeral Part 2.
This is part 2, please also see part 1 and 3 of the day we put Asher to eternal rest. God Bless him and thank you for sharing our deep pain.
Asher, the 2nd worst day of our lives. The funeral part 1
This is part 1, please also see part 2 and 3 of the day we put Asher Dean to eternal rest. God Bless him and thank you for sharing our deep pain and grief. We love you Asher so much.
GUAM TV KUAM INTERVIEW REGARDING ASHER, DECEMBER 14, 2018
KUAM TV NEWS ON ASHER JAN. 4, 2019
The failed doctor, Dr. Shishin Miyagi and the fake doctor Ethan Snider, Physician Assistant should leave Guam.
Dr, ahh Mr, Miyagi never once picked up a stethoscope when he saw Asher, but lied in his records and said he did. Asher died 2 days later. Ethan Snider when we returned to the clinic told us the doctors were busy and even though Asher was dying refused to check his records or get a real doctor. He refused to give us a referral to the hospital.He then threatened us with the police.
HE AIN'T HEAVY, HE'S MY BROTHER
Azrael mourns the loss of his little brother Asher, thru this video compilation of their experiences together. The video is dedicated to Dr. Shishin Miyagi and Ethan Snider who didnt think giving Asher Dean, our son, the proper time and care was necessary in my opinion.
www.guamopinion.com explains how incompetence and arrogance, in my opinion, impacted Asher's care at The Guam Seventh Day Adventist Clinic.
ASHER DEAN SIMBAHAN LUBOFSKY
The Grief, The Loss, The Failed Doctors
ASHER LOVED TO TRAVEL
Asher, in his short life, had been to the Philippines, Guam, Hong Kong and Bali. During his last night, as we lay in his hospital bed, he told me he wanted to go back to Hong Kong again. We also planned a trip to Vietnam in March.
My boy, travel high. We miss you more than words can express.
FUN FACTS
Asher always tried to teach his dad to speak Tagalog, but was frustated by his dads inability to learn.
Ash had the Hong Kong trains announcements memorized and often repeated them while playing with his toys. "PLEASE STAND BACK FROM THE TRAIN DOORS. THE DOORS ARE OPENING", while also imitating the sounds. (My son, ride the train now with the angels.)
Asher loved little stickers, any kind, such as price tags, labels, etc. He would peel them off and put on his fingers or the wall or anywhere. One day, I had a doctor lab appointment and left Asher and his brother near the nurses table. When I returned I found that Asher had removed the matching stickers from many of the lab sanple containers and had them on his fingers, luckily unused containers.The nurses were not too happy. I miss those sticker fingers and still have a storage compartment covered with them, thanks to my boy.
People often ask where I got the name Dean from added to Asher. Well, all my 3 sons have Dean in their name as a way to remember my mother, Asher's grandmother. My middle name was supposed to be Dean, but due to some paperwork error at that time it didnt happen. Well, that didnt stop my mother when she was upset at me to call me David Dean my whole life. I decided to pass that name to my boys. ASHER DEAN, especially when I wanted his attention. I YELL ASHER DEAN EVERY DAY NOW AND LONG TO HEAR HIS VOICE.
Asher often told his mother that she was wasting electricity, but of course couldn't say the word electricity, so cute. He would say I mam, instead of I am. Miss you Asher.
"IT'S NICE TO DO NOTHING AND RELAX," was one of Asher's favorite sayings.
Asher's brother Azrael is a fast runner and very skinny and would often also skip wherever we would go. Asher, being competitive, always tried to do the same, but just couldnt keep up. It was cute to watch his chubby butt skipping awkwardly. I would give anything to see that again.
No Matter, Big or Small, Life was a Celebration with Asher.
Asher Dean's Fifth Birthday, Part 2.
Asher Dean's Fifth Birthday, Part 1.
ASHER'S 3RD BIRTHDAY, CELEBRATE MY BOY
Asher's smile was a gift that keeps us going, our Mr. Smiley.
MUSIC LESSONS, NOT
Fun Times
SINGING LESSONS, NOT
Fun Times, non stop with my boys.
ASHER, ALWAYS JOKING AROUND, EVEN WHEN SICK.
Asher, doing his funny dance. My son, now dance with the stars. Love You!